hahahahah I just.. wow, lol

FEEL FREE TO SHARE YOUR OPINIONS! LOL

VICKI: Ok. I get that Eva brought my name in the conversation you two were having, that is however, no excuse for you to say something in such a rude “I’m better than you are” tone. Quote: “What are you and Vicky going to do, take a bus down here?” FYI my name is spelled with an “I” at the end. If I said nothing directly toward you, my name doesn’t need to be coming out of your mouth. Have you ever considered this? What _____ is doing is clearly a cry for help. How is giving _____ an ultimatum helping her? Clearly she needs help. Someone just doesn’t quit overnight. Supposedly you of all people should know.
　
SARAH: 1. You’re right- your sister brought you into the conversation. Seeing as how it was through text, I had no way of knowing you weren’t involved in the threat.
　
2. I wasn’t trying to imply that I am better by asking if you two are planning on taking the bus down here to kick my ass. I was trying to asses the threat.
3. Self injurers need to know that the consequences of hurting themselves outweigh the relief they get from it. I don’t’ expect it to stop overnight. I just want _____ to try to get better, and seek help. And that’s exactly what I told ____ so I apologize if you don’t agree , but I know that the possibility of losing important to you will often open your eyes and make you seek help. 4. I apologize if I offended you. All I want is for ____ to get better.

SARAH: Now if you’re done accusing me of shit, I would like to get back to working on the 4 hours worth of homework I have to do

(WHO FUCKING CARES?? LOL NO ONE ASKED YOU WHAT YOU WERE DOING….. POINTLESS!)

VICKI: ___ wont be able to get better if someone she cared about is contributing to her emotional turmoil. You do realize if it gets worse you’re to blame?

SARAH: No. ___ hurting herself is her own choice. And according to her it started again after going back to work, so why don’t you go bug them?
　

VICKI: Ok, don’t fucking cuss at me when I didn’t say one cuss word, if were using cuss words then by all means be a fucking twat. I never accused, just spoke the truth.

SARAH: OH MY GOD I SAID SHIT! I must be going to hell now! OHNOES!…. Wow. Grow up a little. And you’re right- ___ did it years ago. Relapses are common when people have family and friends who don’t help them get the proper mental health care as they stop. So tell me again who’s fault this is?

(OH YES…. SHE IS SOOOOOOO MUCH MORE MATURE THAN MYSELF RIGHT? LOL PFFT WAY TO BLAME MY WHOLE FAMILY. ESPECIALLY THOSE OF US WHO DON’T KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THE FIRST PALCE. CARE TO SAY THAT TO MY MOM? HAHA)

VICKI: Ok yeah me grow up. I will grow up when you stop acting like some fucking know it all who swears she’s been through so much. Ms. Skinhead against intolerance, lol oh no you don’t like racism, yet skin head is a fucking racial term no matter what context you put it in contradictory ASS hat.

SARAH: I apologize for that last text… it was really rude. But you are trying to back me into a corner and I don’t let that happen to me anymore

SARAH: We may have different view points on the situation, but in the end we both want the same thing. I don’t see why you feel the need to fight me when we have the same basic goal. ____ getting better.

(I FEEL THE NEED TO FIGHT YOU BECAUSE YOU ACT LIKE YOU KNOW EVERYTHING.. AND YOU DON’T…. ALSO BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN ATTITUDE OF SUPERIORITY WHICH WILL BECOME MUCH MORE APPARENT IN THE FUTURE MESSAGES….)

VICKI: Yeah its my family’s fault, because I never knew she did it till now you stupid bitch! I’m arguing because you’re a rude know it all shit.

SARAH: skinhead is a punk sect that boneheads gave a bad name. Try being properly informed about a scene before you talk shit.

(OOOOH SO SOOOORRYYYY WRONG SKINHEAD I GUESS.. LOL OOOOPS! SHE IS SO FULL OF SHIT I DOUBT SHE IS IN S.H.A.R.P LOL SHE CAN SAY ALL SHE WANTS THOUGH.)

VICKI: It doesn’t matter if its punk, and nigger means ignorant. Not a person of African decent, try being properly informed.

(Just an example. She doesn’t like that word, but it doesn’t mean an African American person…… That‘s just what certain people in the south warped it into.
The true meaning of "Nigger" is a person who is not aware of a certain situation, which makes them IGNORANT to the situation. They can be any race, gender, or age.)

SARAH: Bottom line-you don’t rate high enough for me to argue with you any longer. So unless you want to work together to help _____, lose my number.

( HAHAHAHA SEE WHAT I MEAN???)

VICKI: There you go again thinking you’re better than everyone else. Lol its fucking funny. At least I don’t have to attempt to be nice to your fat arse, yes even fatter than myself! Lol so keep living in your laa laa land where Sarah is better than everyone else… must have been telling yourself that for a looooong time. All I see is the trailer trash sloppy bitch from raiders.

The Know-It-All is one of the most difficult personality types to deal with. They are highly opinionated, arrogant and believe that their knowledge is superior. In other words - they literally think they know it all!Most people will avoid this personality type at all costs but occasionally we have no choice but to communicate with them.

It's important to understand that Mr. Know-it-all is extremely insecure. This person was probably criticized a lot as a child and has now built up a defensive shield so others won't see him or her as vulnerable or incompetent. They seek respect by trying to become an expert at everything.

"Nice Guy" Dilemma....

This was submitted by a Steve Seversen, and erroneously credited to him. The original article (in all its whining, self-pitying glory) can be found at Joe's own site at: JoeTown

The Nice Guy's Dilemma

Observation: women hate nice guys. It's absolutely true, and don't deny it. Nice girls don't like nice guys,

[Nice guys don't like themselves. It's like a tired pick-up line these losers use. If you're truly a nice guy, you don't have to advertise it. Being a nice guy is not a synonym for being a co-dependant lump, however, calling yourself a "nice guy" like it is some badge of martyrdom, IS.]

and you know it. Evidence: Remember the incredibly gorgeous girl in high school? Remember the loser guy she was dating?

[Life doesn't always fall into stereotype.]

He was probably some jock, but he definitely wasn't a nice guy. And think to college - think of the girl in your psych

[As a matter of fact, I often wondered what "nice guys" saw in "gorgeous" girls. Judging people on a superficial basis doesn't make you a "nice guy," and ironically, you get what you deserve when you judge people by what's on the outside.]

class who is just amazing. She's smart, funny, outgoing, and is well beyond beautiful. Is she single? Are you kidding? That's her boyfriend sitting next to her, the asshole frat guy with the Amercrombie baseball cap.

[I can hear you eating your heart out from here. Use a napkin.]

Let's face it, guys, women don't like us. Not if we're nice, anyway.

[Well, aren't there any OTHER girls that would draw your interest, NICE GUY? How about the nice girl sitting beside you?]

Now, I understand that this entire rant here is subjective, so I should in all fairness clarify my terms. When I refer to "nice girls," I think my standards are pretty universal. Physical beauty, intelligence, sense of humor, creativity, and style come together to combine a general niceness factor, and that's what I'm talking about.

[Yes, I can see how all that goes into *your* definition of NICE (when it applies to WOMEN).]

And when I refer to "nice guys," I'm referring to guys who basically have their shit together. They're smart, they study a lot and work hard, and they try to be generally nice to everybody. They're friendly, polite, and they like their mothers.

[I notice that physical beauty has NOTHING to do with a NICE GUY, so tell me, if you aren't interested in a less-than-immediately attractive girl, why should any beautiful woman want to be with a troglodyte such as yourself, using your standards?]

Here's your basic test to see whether or not a guy is nice: Tell the subject about this thing you heard that was really rude. If the subject laughs and says, "Dude, that rocks. I wish I could be that mean," you know he's not a nice guy.

[My definition of a genuinely nice guy is one who will treat everyone as an equal, and who DOESN'T EXPECT to get anything because of his nice behavior.]

But women love him. That's the true defining characteristic of an asshole. Great women date losers. They LOVE assholes. But they stay away from nice guys like the plague.

[Nice guys like you are the plague. Who wants to spend time with someone with hypocritical values, a whiny and self-centered outlook, and feels that his "nice" behavior is like a barter system. Nice guys like you are hardly in short supply. You tend to shit on your friends, then cry about being alone. Nice guys don't finish last, whiny, I'm-so-sorry-for-myself-I'd-kill-myself-but-I'd-rather-mope guys finish last, and so they should. Grow a spine, stop expecting something for practically nothing, and get over the envy.]

My friend Phil and I have given this problem a telling name: The Nice Guy's Dilemma. In an effort to discover why the Nice Guy's Dilemma exists in the first place, I decided to go to the source: I found some nice girls and asked them why in the hell they were being so stupid.

[Anything to avoid working on the REAL problem: yourself.]

My expectation was that the girls I talked to would disagree about why the Nice Guy's Dilemma exists. I even expected some to deny that it exists at all. To my surprise, not only did every single girl I talked to agree that women

[And how many WAS that, exactly? I really hate these do-it-yourself surveys.]

are largely attracted to assholes, but with only minor variation did they disagree about why.

[To your face, anyway.]

Without any doubt, nice guys in today's college environment are the victims of a massive conspiracy.

[Yes, we conspire to shut you out of the dating scene. (And guys complain about women with 'victim' mentality!)]

Women are attracted to excitement. They crave drama and suspense in a relationship. The nice guy can't offer these things, because he is inherently unexciting. The nice guy will always be there for you, and will always have a shoulder to lean on.

[Is that ever an understatement. The "nice guy" will wrap himself around your leg, vowing never to let you go. He worries when you're out with your friends. He does "nice" things for you only to throw them up in your face later, which tells you that the act of kindness was really a spiderweb of power.]

Where the hell is the excitement in that? College women are looking for a relationship that is reckless; they want a boyfriend who will be just a little too daring. They want somebody who will frustrate and challenge them.

[Someone who will be his own person? Of course someone with the personality of a wet dishrag would perceive anyone even slightly more stimulating as "reckless".]

I don't know why, but it's true. My friend Kristen suggested that in a way, all women are looking for a challenge. It's a maternal instinct, she says, to seek out the problems in a guy and try to fix them. Women, she says, are attracted to asshole guys because they think that they can fix them.

[That's a different problem altogether, but one thing about this is not surprising. I am not shocked that one co-dependent person found another to befriend. Healthy people just aren't attracted to that type of behavior.]

Women are inherently social workers.

[Well, the co-dependant kind would be. Anything to avoid fixing their OWN issues. Much like "nice guys." And of course, you don't notice the healthy ones.]

Nice guys don't present a challenge, because they don't have the same readily apparent problems for women to want to fix. The truth, of course, is that even the nicest of guys has personality issues that run extremely deep.

[You have a host of problems to fix, to be honest, but who wants to bother with someone who tends to be a controlling crybaby and thinks of himself as a 'victim'? ]

Nice guys choose to conceal these flaws, of course, because we think that women will find us unattractive if they know that we're not perfect.

[You THINK you are hiding your flaws, but in reality you are so transparent it's a wonder you can see yourself in the mirror when you shave in the morning...]

If we only knew the truth, that women actually like character flaws because they want to fix those problems. My friend Tara agreed with my summary: Women are inherently social workers.

[No, your friends are social workers. I don't waste my time. There are a lot of women like me, too, but we stay away from guys like you.]

So there you have it: A clear explanation of why women choose to date assholes instead of nice guys. Nice guys aren't nearly as exciting or dramatic as assholes, and we don't present any flaws for women to want to fix, either. Basically, we're fucked.

[In the head, yes.]

So how do nice guys get around this dilemma? How do we overcome the problem of not being rude and arrogant? Fortunately, it appears that time is on our side. "They're just getting it out of their system," said Kristen.

[Funny how self-confidence can be misinterpreted as arrogance. Self-confidence is attractive.]

Women apparently go through a phase in their early twenties in which they crave the experience of a reckless dating relationship. My friend Julia explained that women are afraid that they'll suddenly be 40 years old and married without ever having dated some reckless punk like John Travolta in "Grease."

[Oh yeah, that's exactly what every woman fears.]

No girl wants to marry Travolta's character, but they all want to date him for at least a little while. I can testify to this fact from personal experience: An ex-girlfriend once said that the reason she thought we should end our relationship was that it was "too stable." The logic that once seemed flooded with bullshit is now crystal clear.

[What she meant was that you were BORING, overbearing, and whiny and probably wrapped yourself too tightly around her leg. Let's face it. When you become aware that you are dating someone who could be one of those guys that snaps and stalks you later, you'll say ANYTHING to lessen the blow and get your ass outta dodge.

And she's right. You ARE long-winded and boring. You disguise the fact that you're whining about your fate by dressing it up in this article as an insightful look into the Nice Guy dilemma, when in fact you're really wondering why YOU can't get a date...well, from a woman who LOOKS good, anyway. Pathetic.]

So apparently, all we have to do is wait. Sometime in their late twenties or early thirties, women start to think more about permanent relationship status. Sometime in their thirties, women start to think rationally.

[Do tell. As late as that? Tell me, when do men like YOU start to think rationally? When do you get off the self-pity pot?]

They begin thinking about marriage and children, and then it suddenly hits them that they need a stable, nice guy to date, not an asshole. The evidence for this shift is obvious: You don't see many thirty-year old guys running around with Amercrombie sweaters and baseball caps, making plans to get "totally wasted" this weekend.

[No, they just buy tools they don't need, tinker around with cars, have midlife crises that involve dating someone young enough to be their daughter and buying a pussymobile. I don't even want to talk about sporting events with a couple of their friends.

Actually, aside from the midlife crisis stereotype, I'd ENCOURAGE a man to get out of my ass and have his own interests. He SHOULD be doing this. If his every waking moment is devoted to me or the family, he's just hiding from his problems involving himself. In other words, he's in desperate need of therapy, and I'm not the one to give it to him.]

And if you do see those guys, you notice that they're single, unlike in college, where they've got their selection of the best girls on campus. So buckle in, nice guys, and get ready for the ride. Prepare to fly solo for another few years, and just be there when this magical change happens in the gender that makes no sense.

[ From your side of the fence anyway. Sorry to crush the only thing that gives you comfort, but if you're waiting for age to make you suddenly attractive, think again. By the time YOU hit thirty, you'll stop expecting that gorgeous woman to notice you, and you'll start ranking those women you consider to be less attractive UP a notch.]

Or, if you're like me and refuse to wait for some mythical common sense to befall our female counterparts, you can try Plan B: Be an asshole.

[That was what this was about? Your justification as to why you're an ass? You didn't need to write ME for that.]

Just be sure to drop by Abercrombie for your costume.

[Assholes wear clothes from anywhere, but true to form, you judge by the outside appearance.

Sit in your own shit and cry.]

Hahahahhahahahahaha Hehehehehehehehe

Eyes On Fire

I REALLY have that song stuck in my brain (Eyes On Fire-Blue Foundation). I don't know why... I haven't written anything in a long time. I just have been feeling like, BLAH. You know?? I'm sure you have felt BLAH before.

*Rant Begin*

OK, random thought here. I find it sooooo crazy that there are so many people in the world, yet it is impossible to find a decent one. Is the majority of the world just filled with shitty people? Or do I just have really bad luck? I seriously don't know. Oh, and why is it "acceptable" for guys to be overweight but if a girl is, it's the end of the world and she won't get the time of day. I am seriously just baffled by all the shitty-ness ( yes I know not a word.) out there.

Another thing that bothers me is my friend is seeing this guy, and he expects her to make him dinner, do his laundry and his dishes. He can't even walk to the kitchen to put his plate/dish in the sink. He just leaves it on the bed! WTF is that crap. So she got preggers like a retard and she just had the baby like, 4 days ago. When she was 5 days from giving birth she was at her mom's house so I called her cell and of course she didn't have it her bf did. So I called and he told me this, "Yeah ------ is coming back tomorrow I hope, because I don't want to make dinner again..." Seriously?!?!? WTH she is 5 DAYS from giving birth to your child and you still expect her to make you dinner??

I just hate guys like that, they piss me off. She didn't even really get to pick the baby's name. She only got to pick the middle name because the baby was already getting the bf's last name, and then he wanted to pick the first name for himself?? That's messed up to.. He almost didn't even let her give the kid the middle name that she wanted to. I know why to. She wanted the middle name to be cory, which was her uncle's middle name. Her uncle committed suicide. So, the way her stupid bf thinks is like this: "Oh I don't want my son having the middle name of someone who committed suicide, because if he has the same middle name, what if he ends up committing suicide to?" So his narrow minded, ignorant self puts this hypothesis together.

It's so ridiculous.... OK, I think my rant is done....

*Rant End*

Well, I really don't know what else to write.... I'm aggravated.. =/